When a woman is lonely and looking for love, we will make everything wrong, everything right. She is looking for her Prince Charming. The one she dreamed about as a little girl. Getting older makes these dreams seem farther away and she makes excuses for his excuses. She finds that she accepts what she would not have accepted years ago and she grabs at these little pieces of heaven rather than to sit alone and dream about what she had and wonder if she should have let it go.

We can answer all these women and tell them how wrong that they are but most of us sit with the comfort of a lover and know the thrill of being wanted. If they continue this path that they are walking now they will probably be hurt. If they are able to walk away from where they are struggling to leave now, they know what will face them.

The perils of dating a younger man will always be there, just as the ambition and hunger of a unfulfilled and lonely older woman. This seems to be the thing nowadays. Do you walk and cry now or do you do it later. It seems to me that you have answered your own question to start.....