I agree. He is either not ready to seriously commit by moving in, but may still want a relationship. There are many reasons why he may want to wait that are good reasons. For example, his life is going to change and he may not want to jump into living together until he is situated and prepared for that. He may just need more time to be sure that's what he wants. Maybe his career and other goals take priority over you (sorry to say). Or he may be concidering other possibillities such as newfound freedom and seeing other people, but doesn't want to tell you that. Unfortunately, there is no simple answer to this... except don't move in. Continue to live your life for yourself and not for him. If and when he is ready for that step, he will let you know, but it is definately not now. Also, don't move there just to be with him. You don't want to be stuck out there if things don't go well between you two. Good luck!