10-19-2007, 09:51 AM
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Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: MI
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You Must Heal
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I agree:
See a counselor--both of you together
Stop drinking. It's not good at all, and you wind up hurting those you love when you're in a drunken stupor. You don't mean it, but it happens.
Also, see a therapist about you having been raped at an young age. Did you ever get to deal with that part of your life?
That is such a serious and traumatic thing to have happen. Does your fiancee know about this?
If you plan on getting married to her, maybe you should first deal with this very serious and sensitive matter. Get that objective help so that you can heal; and then perhaps the therapist will bring your fiancee in on the healing/recovery process.
I hope this works out for you. 
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