10-19-2007, 01:56 PM
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Originally Posted by poudrier2083
gosh i really wish he didnt care.. maybe he doesnt and hes just bored? 
could there be anything that could be said that i havent said before to make him understand how i feel and maybe he would stop? he and i just talked about it the other nite actually and he said he hasnt called her voicemail. im doing my best to believe him, i mean theres really no way of knowing because in the past he just deletes it outta his phone(i know i shouldnt be snooping either) but he has still looked online at her. and goodness, i wonder why all the time.. and i dont wanna ask him because i have in the past and he gets irritated...maybe i should just let it go for awhile and see if it stops, kinda hard to know though since he covers his tracks lol. i mean what should i do if it continues on through our second year? i mean enough is enough after ONE year am i right? |
There is nothing you can do or say to change your b/f.
That's what is so hard for a lot of us to understand: we CAN NOT change anybody. This guy feels the way he feels.
You can talk to him about it, you can snoop after him.... this has got to be agonizing for you.
If he didn't get his ex out of his system before you came along, then how long are you willing to wait for this guy to finally get her OUT of his system? The 2nd year? 3rd? 4th? The 12th of NEVER????
We can keep telling you this guy has unresolved issues and feelings towards his ex and you are just going through emotional torture trying to do and say things to "snap him out of it."
In the final analysis, it's up to you if you're going to continue to go through this emotional merry-go-round that your current b/f is putting you through.
He's showing you better than he could ever tell you that he's still stuck on his ex.
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