10-25-2007, 10:37 AM
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Location: MI
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Originally Posted by sourpuss
Are you planning on staying married? Are the two of you in counseling together? If not, you need to be, desperately.
I would suggest a paternity test (not sure if those can be done before the baby is born, I think they can) And I would also suggest getting a lawyer. If the baby is his and you plan to stay married, the two of you will be paying child support. And from the sounds of this woman, child support to her will be the least of your concerns.
Tough spot you are in, I hope everything works out. The cynic in me wants to tell you to look out for yourself first!!
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I agree w/Sourpuss.
When your husband says "That's not possible", does he mean it's not possible he got the woman pregnant, or does he mean it's not possibe that she's 2 months' pregnant?
Anyway it goes, Sourpuss pretty much summed it up: (if you plan to stay married) get counseling; get a lawyer; get a paternity test.
If you DO stay married, should this woman want child support, YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND will be paying it. He will have visitation rights, so be prepared.
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