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Old 10-25-2007, 01:30 PM
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This is a rough situation to be in.

Do you feel comfortable with all this? I mean, if your husband got "mad" and went and slept with another woman, what's to say he won't get "mad" again and do the same.... be it with her OR another woman?

I wouldn't be able to trust anything that comes out of either person's mouth, b/c they both lied.

The woman may want him; but look, she's already had him!

To me, it doesn't matter how far along she is in her pregnancy; if the baby is his, she will certainly be seeing more of your husband because he will have some form of custody or visitation. Also, she will be in you & your husband's finances.

Think about these things... I mean really think about them.

Should you & your husband get back together, you will a whole new set of issues to deal with... and you will need to be strong enough to deal with them.

Do you & your husband already have children? Have you both explained to them that they may have another brother or sister coming... but not by you?

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