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Originally Posted by JubesInquest
This is a rough situation to be in.
Do you feel comfortable with all this? I mean, if your husband got "mad" and went and slept with another woman, what's to say he won't get "mad" again and do the same.... be it with her OR another woman?
I wouldn't be able to trust anything that comes out of either person's mouth, b/c they both lied.
The woman may want him; but look, she's already had him!
To me, it doesn't matter how far along she is in her pregnancy; if the baby is his, she will certainly be seeing more of your husband because he will have some form of custody or visitation. Also, she will be in you & your husband's finances.
Think about these things... I mean really think about them.
Should you & your husband get back together, you will a whole new set of issues to deal with... and you will need to be strong enough to deal with them.
Do you & your husband already have children? Have you both explained to them that they may have another brother or sister coming... but not by you?
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Good points, again.
This is soooo complicated. If it were me and there were no kids involved, I'd walk away from this one. It seems like this is the beginning of the drama ahead and you two are already struggling to make it work.
You are essentially becoming a stepmother in your own marriage because your husband (supposedly) was throwing a temper tantrum?! Is it worth staying?