10-29-2007, 09:56 AM
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Sounds like "Oscar" is the Billy Badbutt in the situation.
You were (and probably still are) "lusting after him" ... as you put it. He disconnected things with YOU; and not YOU with HIM, so you were left without what is known as "closure".
You went on with "Ed" because he was "safe" -- you knew he would be there for you, he'd be "right" for you--- he even warned you against "Oscar".
Ed is P.O.'d w/Oscar because you still have emotions for Oscar. It's like you have these emotions for someone that has shown you he doesn't give a dmn about you.
Ed wanted you to see that he won't treat you that way; but after years of trying to get you to see that, he's tired of it. Now he wants to be the one going back-and-forth between women and having the option to mess around with someone else.
It's still a sticky situation and you have children involved in it. Oscar will want to be in your life ONLY because he wants to be a problem for you. He'll use the "I-want-to-see-my-child" statement as an excuse to parade all through your life.... and cause you problems with the any other relationship you may have. He'll be glad if you call him when things go wrong. He likes being able to come-and-go in and out of your life as he pleases.
That is exactly why you should NEVER call him when you have problems in your current relationship. It's only an invite for trouble.
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Last edited by JubesInquest; 10-29-2007 at 10:03 AM.
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