she is at fault. i am fine with it if my husband went and had sex with herthe 1 time when we were apart.im not FINE with it but i mean i can understand.but if it wasnt just that time as she says then thats when theres a problem.my husband will say no im telling the truth and we even wanna leave sometimes and i tell him i dont just want to sit here dumb.i dont want any loose ends or questions hanging around and he assures me that hes telling the truth.and when she was tellin me that she was withhim sayin that they were togther she seemed like she felt bad and said she didnt kno and that she would leave him alone.then 2 months later she says shes pregnant and has been with him ever since she told me she hasnt...i believe its the females who r supposed to kno better.and i hate her for that