I see everyones point and i Thank you so much. Its refreshin to hear someone eles views on it. Yes we both have children from our previous marriages.. 5 between us both lol<which we put first>. I think your right if i push him of course the more he will with draw and thats something i for sure dont want.


And on another note, How do you make the second time around better? i mean all your "firsts" are gone. experiencing having kids your first house all that.. you feel like youve done gave away so much, experienced so much .. whats left to give to "Mr. Right"? lol Geez i hope someone gets this, and its not just me being weird.