this sounds very familiar,im only sad tht this is an issue women are faced with.in my situation i didnt see it untill after we were married with a child.we still are!i hope the best for you two.i keep thinking my situation is fixable.im not allowed to go to certain gas stations....there are indefinant insecurities,even his mom knows about them.i just wonder what she thinks.does she think i will put up with this forever?its sad because i love her to death,she has helped me out in many ways and shown me more love and support then my own mother or even husbad for that matter.