I'd say that the marriage was mediocre. She was lazy in a lot of ways- spiritually, physically, sexually, and emotionally. I just pulled up the slack that she left and was happy to have a mate that was attractive and who I thought was faithful. I think I just liked to have somebody who I could have a deep relationship with. In hind sight it seems kinda one sided because I'd share my feelings and hopes etc. but she never really did. I've studied the color code and found out that I'm a blue and she's a white. I've always felt like she acted like a non person. You know, just not a lot of personality. She complains about things a lot and is very negative about you name it, but goes with the flow. The nice side of that is I didn't threatened by her or really like I couldn't do what I like. Don't venture to think that I neglected her and just always did what I wanted to. I was raised to always be a gentleman and be a good provider etc. We went to Cancun when she wanted to, bought a house when she wanted to, had a child when she wanted to etc. etc. She has a nice car w. leather seats power everything and stayed home and didn't work to be with our daughter because she wanted to. What I'm saying is I still get to ride motorcycles and kind of do things my way.