11-03-2007, 02:49 PM
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Legally, if the relationship between your wife and this chap
is true then you are fully protected in posting his name. If
you have reasonable suspicion to believe that he is liable
it is also protected as fair comment.
There is a MB which prides it self on publishing the names
of cheaters...Cheating Men, Signs of Cheating Men - WomanSavers.
In this forum, however, where we deal issues in a more
general manner, and the name of the chap is not particularly
important, I think referring to him as Toad might be more useful.
As to the meat of your post....
You have to feel anger. You have been betrayed. It is normal.
I told you why she did it, she's amoral.
Have you ever been in a situation where you have no idea
you did something wrong?
Some social gaffe you've made, totally unaware that you
don't sit in the 'Late President's Chair' or use 'Grandfather's
Ashtray', or any one of a number of 'infractions' you performed
which were morally neutral when you did them?
That is exactly where her head is at.
You have nothing to learn from this experience save this;
In ancient days, when we were children, there were all
sorts of signs and symbols, and smiting. Now that we have
reached young adulthood, a small warning sign; 'don't
touch' should be sufficient.
As soon as you learned she had this kind of a past
you should have run very quickly in another direction.
This is not a girl who was in love with a chap who
was killed in Iraq or a car accident, or whose boyfriend
dumped her for another woman.
This is a girl who was having an affair with a married
man with both eyes open. A girl who knew he wasn't
going to divorce his wife for her, but satisfied her
lusts anyway.
Given another opportunity to satisfy her lusts with
the same chap, she takes it.
Where do you come into the story?
You could be a stuffed polar bear.
What has been troubling you is that if you explore
your past, and collect all the small 'don't touch'
signs, you will appreciate that you were warned.
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