11-05-2007, 11:00 PM
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If you were my client I would map it out for you like this;
Begin the divorce now, and take a leave of absence from school.
You want to set your earnings at what you earn now.
Once the divorce is final the wisest thing is to move somewhere
else.
This is to clean out your head from what you've been involved in
for the past how many years.
You can not walk around with all this pain. Being in a new
place with new people who don't know your past, you can
overwrite it.
Eventually when you are you, two or three years from now,
then you go back to school and finish.
As you should be far enough away from her your changes
in status should be kept from her because she might
very well have married you for money and I'm sure you
didn't get a pre-nup.
One of my extremely wealthy clients was getting married
and I forced him to do a pre nup. When he showed it to
his loving bride she was so angry she wanted to call off
the wedding, then, decided to get her lawyer to draw up
a different pre-nup.
By this time he had very little doubt what was going on
with her and his pocket.
One of the things that is so crucial is for you to get your
life back.
The longer you delay the worse it gets.
As to the wife, well she does need to know.
Probably when you go for the divorce you can
talk freely around blabber mouths who will
adore the chance to spread bad news.
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