I'm 35 years old and I have been married for 14 years. I have two sons. Lately my husband and I are not in the same page. He is masterbating 1 and two times a day. Yesterday we had sex in the morning and when I came from work he was masterbating. Is this normal. I sometimes think that he is having an affair. We don't talk much and he is avoiding being home. Is this a problem? Please advice!!