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Originally Posted by ^RAVEN^
yes i have got 4 kids.2 of them to him,i have nowhere to go,and not much family.i never thought when we first got together that he would turn out to be what he is now.dont get me wrong he isnt violent,its more of his behaviour and the things he says ,to put me down, that hurts.comments like nobody will want you when we break up,im beginning to believe him,cos i feel that fed up, that i just cant be bothered anymore.my eldest daughter hates him because of how he treats me and tells me to kick him out.the youngest 3 just hate the constant rows.i cant stand the thought of being in this situation in 10 years time.x  |
He is abusing you emotionally and mentally! Just because he hasn't hit you (yet) doesn't mean he's not abusing you. Don't believe a word he says, he's the one that no one will want.
Do you have any close friends you can confide in that won't tell him? my guess is that all of your friends have discussed his behavior behind your back and are just waiting for you to make the break.
Do some research to see if there is a local organization in your area that can help you get on your feet without him.
Stay strong and keep reminding yourself that you (and your kids) deserve better.