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Lady Lane brought up a very important point;
you knew who and what she was when you married her.
People paint a picture of their lives, telling half truths
or mirroring the truth, because they have a need to
get 'over' on those who desire to believe them.
For example, there was this extremely shallow
ex model whose whole world was concerned with
how she looked, what she had, and what 'people'
thought.
The girl was selfish, never did a thing for anyone,
greedy, never had enough, and this chappie married
her.
After a while he noticed how selfish she was, how
she always wanted what she wanted, be it food,
television programs, the fan on or off; it had to be
her way.
He couldn't talk to her about anything beyond what
she wanted to eat, where, go, see, and do.
After two years of marriage he's starting to complain
about this, and everyone, her friends, her family are
laughing their head off;
"You didn't notice that?" they said.
No.
He hadn't.
So besotted with her 'beauty", he never really
listened to her, never saw beyond the body and
the smile.
There was no 'change' in the girl, there was no deception,
he just chose to see a beautiful woman willing to have sex
with him.
I think this is the key feature.
I would suggest a paternity test to insure this child is
Emotions child.
I'm not being cruel or presumptious.
A client of mine was livid when I suggested a paternity
test, and he stomped from my chambers. When the
child was sixteen, she towered over him, had none of
his features, was clearly not his, and he finally did the
DNA testing.
She was not his child.
Sixteen years, and this was a stranger.
Yes, he continued to support her, send her to University,
and hid the fact from her.
I don't know the 'end' of the story; I haven't seen him
for eleven years, but if he had it done when she was
a baby his life would have turned out differently.
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