I've seen other people in similar situations that I'm in now and thought why don't they just act and get it over with. When I think about my own situation I think the same things. I'm not a man who's afraid of action. Most things in life that I fear I assert myself to conquer till there's almost nothing I'm afraid of. My insecurity is that's what it is I tend to believe that it's going to be so permanent. If I can set a good example and do all that I can to teach her by my example then when we do split she's going to be that much more capable to teach my daughter to work hard, to pray, and to love. She will inevitably be having an influence on her life one way or another. Of course initially she'll swing hard the wrong way and be angry, bitter, spiteful, you name it, but in the coming years that'll subside and she'll get an opportunity to think back on things. Maybe? It seems worth a shot. Besides I love having my daughter around to be able to help her grow and learn in the mean time. She is SO SO cute and precious!