Thanks for a reply. Testicular cancer is terrible. Destroys lives much younger than prostate cancer. The cure.. living longer but at what cost?. Any thoughts on the lack of exposure regarding prostate cancer/male cancers? It still has not been addressed. Also on reading about the prostate I have learned about its multifunctions and the great loss a man feels and has when surgery or removal is done. Mentally and physically. Yes, guys are real attached to their stuff so to speak but with all that has been devalued for menkind, Some feel they don't have much left to offer. I am not angry at you for stealing the thunder or whatever. At this time in my life I am trying real hard as a man to figure out where I belong and/if society values us much, or any more.
I have too many questions and not any answers.
Sorry for your loss.
Back again. (editing) I saw your thread about husband with cancer. I am so sorry for the internal struggle you are having. Some posters there were very insensitive. I don't know what happened with you on that but IMO, if you had sex with another (hope not) I hope either your husband was ok with it or by some chance if you went into it alone it helped you find the energy to stay with him. If he was against it, it could cause him to give up entirely. Sometimes when I see a thread or post I wonder who is behind it and what their situation is. I hope everything turns out good for you. I am not an expert or even married. I can only say what I feel. Soon I should be posting some real serious stuff about my inner pain. An incredible sense of sadness although my situation is quite different than yours. I hope you and others are willing to help me. I am a man and on this site I know I already have a strike against me. Peace and Love.