You are a wonderful and kind sister, but you are not blind......Stop it before it starts if it hasn't already. Tell her you love her and to find her own place. Stop ignoring the obvious signs because she is your sister. Sister's have sexual heat just like any other woman. Despite needing all the rubs, she obviously is not dead and just may be more alive than you realize. I consider a back rub very erotic and I love it.

My sister made a very obvious and bold play for my husband. She was married but this made no difference to her. She was so used to having her own way that this really didn't bother her. Looking back I wonder why I tolerated her as long as I did. He never took the bait but she presented it way too often. I probably did this trying to keep the perfect "Happy Family" that really does not exist.

Sometimes we women are so st*pid that I think we were born with blinders on and we don't open our eyes for the first 40 years of our life. But when we do, it is katy bare the door. Then we are this hot and very maturing woman. Believe me this will be a Topic too....