I didnt think I would be posting about my future mother in-law again but... she strikes again!
I am sorry to begin with if this is long but I have to vent to someone! My last post was a couple months ago. My future mother inlaw has to have something wrong with her! I think it all started when we moved in together. She would make frequent un-announced stops that were well out of her way just to start drama or to make mean jokes about my family. I wont bring up all that again, it was in my last post and thankfully I got through that hard time with everyone's help! Thanks sooo much again!
But now and over the past couple months, we have not spoken. Of course I went for Thanksgiving and Christmas and I was extremly nice and tried to talk to her... but I failed. My Christmas gift--dont get me wrong, I am not the kind of person to judge someone gift to me but she intentionaly hurt my feelings by getting my a pair of XL pj's from WalMart. I am a size 5! This is just the kind of person she is....
She has called my cell 2 times in the past 2 months. Once, I was in school and could not answer and here recently she called my phone when I was out to eat with my best friend that moved to Florida and was back for the holidays. I was not about to answer .. I knew why she was calling. Bryan wasnt answering his phone so she leaves me another crappy voicemail saying she needs to talk to her son NOW..
Why would I answer my cell when I know that she is only calling to yell at me for Bryan not talking to her. Its not my fault he cant stand her! I made him go over for Thanksgiving! He didnt even want to go but it is still MY fault ...some how!
Well one thing led to another and she just flips out totally! Calls us both liars and Bryan needs to move back home to be more taken care of. He does have servere asthma but he takes care of himself. HE IS NOT TWO! He is 20!!
Well we told her to quit calling and starting stuff between us and Bryan hung up....she called back...we didnt answer.. and she left yet another crappy voicemail....It went like this
I am the more important then some girl. I dont know why you are letting some girl get in between us. You need to move back home and start acting right. I will come up there! You better call me back...
We havent spoke to her since. It is her fault. She
was sooo nice and
now she is sooo mean and cruel! She is pushing her son away. She is on nerve meds and now I am seeing why!! I really hope this doesnt have some kind of effect on Bryan, he means so much to me and I know this hurts him when she does this!
Is it best to just stay away from her? He doesnt want anything to do with her..... I should stick by my man right? If this is what he wants...
What should we say to her? To not call anymore? Or tell her what she is doing is wrong... and then get her started up again..
I am trying to deal with this the best I can but we have both been sick, my mom has
pneumonia and I dont know what to do anymore!
I could really use some help! Thanks