01-02-2008, 01:47 PM
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Silver Contributor 100+ Posts
Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: utah
Posts: 210
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wow i'm so sorry you have to go through this. well i'm sure this has been difficult for you and bryan. sounds like this woman has some issues on having to finally cut the cord with her son and she seems like she would go to huge lengths to make him and everyone involved miserable in the process. this is a hard thing. i know it's his mother but geez she can't put a diaper on him now like you say he is 20 for goodness sake. sounds like she is the very controlling type. well the only thing i can suggest is that all ties would have to be cut with her. maybe you could block her incoming calls or even change your phone numbers(i know that sounds like a pain to do)i have a similar type of issue i deal with and thats with my hubbys ex wife. we have custody of my hubbys youngest son and i know she is his mother but we had to sever all ties with this woman due to the fact she was actually disrupting everyones life and causing much strain on our home life. we changed the number have a p.o. box for our mail and even have a report on file with the police just in case the harrasing gets too out of control. we just have to act like she doesn't even exsist anymore like we never met her. i know these things sound drastic but it has worked out well so far for us. you and bryan have your own lives now together and she has to simply accept this. well good luck with this and i wish i had some more input for you.......
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