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Originally Posted by Alma
Hi, I'm a new user and I have been apart from my husband for about 6 months because he's deployed at the moment. 
We've been married for 4 years and have no children. I'm fortunate to be able to speak with him just about everyday. We have a very good relationship, but the only thing I seem to miss is our sexual relationship. I'm not saying that I don't miss anything else about him/us, but I'm constantly thinking and fantasizing about being with him sexually, not too much about going out to eat, holding hands or watching TV together. Sometimes I have to tell my self to leave it alone and stop thinking about it so much, just wait until his R&R, but sometimes I feel a bit guilty that so much emphasis is concentrated on our sexual relationship. Has anyone esle experienced something similar? |
Being with a man you love and being sexual is the most erotic and perfect thing in a marriage. We get along fantastic and I love going out with him and everything else about him, but if we could spend a good part of the rest of our life in bed having sex, I would do it in a New York minute. It makes you feel so good.
You and he are lucky. You have found what so many couples cannot find. Hang on to it and count the days until he is back home to you and then my dear, love him like there is no tomorrow and never stop. As you age bring all these wonderful days of wine and roses back to keep remembering them so that nothing fades. Always remember your today's. That is the secret of a happy marriage........
I envy you for your long life ahead and I wish both of you well....Take care and God speed in your husband coming home. Take care, Caroline