OK I slept with my best friend.
She's dating somebody who lives far away and only sees her BF a few times a year. We've been hanging out for about 8 months and have become great friends mainly being relationship advisors to each other, and i don't think we ever really considered sleeping with each other. Our friends had recently been making comments that we should be dating. But we dismissed any such comments, valuing our friendship more.
But it still happened, drunk but still consciously and mutually.
We spent the entire next day together talking about it, coming to the conclusion that our friendship is more important and we should focus on that and that she loves her BF.
On the other hand he is so far away, has no clue when he might actually move here, and we get along great. Spend time talking every day, and have loads of fun together.
Friendship seems to be ok right now, and I’d rather keep that than jeopardize that with a relationship. But maybe our friends are right and we would be better off dating, and we just deny this to ourselves…..

Any experience in that department appreciated