I guess having your Hubby in Iraq and fantasizing about sex with him isn't a bad thing. What you really should do is find yourself a nice toy and handle your business. He'd much appreciate that then you going out and finding it another way. i'm currently in IRAQ for 15 months and I have ordered things and had them send to my wife. That was really a turn on for me and she got to satisfy her need until i can help. Smile!!!!!!!