Well I am not sure where to start. About a year ago my husband told me he was going to leave me because he was no longer "in love" with me. He loved me but not "in love". so at that point we started counciling and thought it was working and he said he felt better. Well now a year later I had been having that bad feeling that something was going on and had confided in a friend of ours about this situation. She cryed with me and shared with me that her husband had cheated on her and she did not think that is what was going on but she would not wish that opon her worst enimy. Bla Bla. so here we are I still feel wierd about the whole situation and just let things be for a bit. Then suggest we go back to counciling. We go a few times and he no longer wants to go. Being a little nosy i get on his cell phone and find a text message from my friend. it said me too me too and i love you. I thought i was going to die. I confront him and he said that they have had a relationship for about 3 months. We have 3 children together and he sat us all down and said he was leaving. I tryed for ever to tell him it was going to kill them. well it tore them apart, and he could not watch them so bad off so he begged me to let him stay. So i have but only if he ended it completely with my friend. Oh and i also confronted her. but what ever on that. any way so 1 day goes by and he has sent her an email about "the truth about true love" I am sick to my stomach. I have tryed to protect my kids and my self and i feel i have let them and my self down. just some input would be great.