I can relate.(lol) We moved to another state, so it meant starting over for all of us. I still feel excluded and it's been almost a year. In the end, you have to do what you feel is best for your child. But unless you feel threatened in some way by these other moms, I agree that you should give it some time. You can't make people like you or invite your kid to parties... Having your own party and inviting your daughters friends sounds like a good way to 'break the ice'. Or how about just inviting some of her friends over for a playdate?