My husband used to BEG me for it and i always said No Never!! then my daughter was born and I felt bad for having to make him wait 6 weeks for sex, so we tried anal. Turns out I liked it as much as he did! But I have to be real turned on, like the above poster said. And it also helps if you have some sort of vibrator or just use your fingers, just to kind of distract you from the little bit of hurt u feel in the beginning of anal. And you et bad infections if you go back and forth...so dont do that.