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Originally Posted by sr14225
... My friend is stuck in the middle trying to make both of us happy, but she is relentless...My friend tells me that he can't interact with me the way he used to because he doesn't want to upset his girlfriend. They've even had huge figthts over me and I didn't even do anything wrong. I simply expressed an interest in wanting to talk to him after rehearsals...He can't choose our friendship over her...
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I had posted on your other thread today but after reading this, I really feel your pain. It sounds like you expect your friend to put you on the same level as his girlfriend but that can't happen, the same way you shouldn't put your friend on the same level or higher than your husband. Maybe you feel you are just being his friend, but to many people, their 'significant other' having a close friendship with someone of the opposite sex feels uncomfortable and it causes conflict. He should be making his girlfriend happy, not you. If you really care about him, leave him alone.