Hi andresen.

Don't give him chances and don't teach him a lesson. If you feel your marriage is worth saving, your husband must get help, possibly counseling. And I would make it an ultimatum that he goes. Make the calls yourself if you have to. But if he makes another empty promise, do whatever you have to to take care of yourself and your child. If he cares about the well-being of his family, he will get the help that he needs. If not, then he can blame himself for the destruction of your marriage.