This is deeper than this....How about school...Does she hate it. Any troubles with any children...Any chance of any abuse along the lines...Usually when a child does this they want all the attention.....

If she feels shunned by other children this can come out in actions...If she feels she is not as cute as another child she will react to this. It can be a nightmare for a parent....Especially a Mother....I wish you well on this....Been there and done that.....