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Originally Posted by josephblahblah
Thanks for the advise so far,
She is in her mid 30s, she has had no past abuse and the relationship is not in danger. Its just frustrating.
Its not easy to suggest professional advise. Remember, she has no interest in sex. So she does not see it as being a big issue. Certainly not major enough for a doctor.
If I suggest Professional help, she will feel like I am putting her under pressure. Pressure will not help.
By making her feel like it is an issue will put her under even more pressure, which could be very hurtful and damaging.
I'm stuck, Should I Leave her alone completely for a while, with no talk of sex or any advances. Let her get over ot herself.
Should I keep trying new things untill something takes, Then may be changed forever.
Or do any of you ladies have any brilliant ideas that may solve the problem.
Its Valentines day, I want to take her to heaven tonight.
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There are many ways you can talk to her about how you feel on this subject without making it hurtful. You say you don't want to make it an issue, but it obviously is an issue with you, as it would be for most people, definatey with me. Things that two peple feel in an intimate relationship cannot go silent. I believe that sincere communication can save relationships in peril that would otherwise exit under more understanding. Talking to her about everything on your mind is my best advice.