Sexual desire is hormonally driven. Denying yourself just makes you crazy. It has taken me years to embrace my sexual self. During my marriage my ex was really inhibited so sex was not satisfying even then. Now I am alone and I continue to learn what works for me. Always remember: "One size fits all" does not apply. You are a unique individual and you are ok.
If you have to use a dildo every day, do it.
Take the pressure off your husband and I'll bet he comes around eventually. Try giving without expecting anything in return. Think about how you would feel if you were in his shoes.
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