Originally Posted by LittleGinger

I've been thinking about fulfilling a long time fantasy and pursuing a one night stand. As this is my first time, I am looking for some advice:

1) How to you signal to a man that this is all you are interested in?

Body language is an amazing thing. And, doubt you would not have some form of conversation. So as it's your fantasy, you can be as bold as you like and say what you want. I'm suggesting you don't do it with someone you know though, someone you have never met and won't again.

2) Is it safer to do it at his place or yours?

Personally, i wouldn't do it at my place, as then he knows where i live. And, as you don't know him, i wouldn't go there either, he may be a stalker !!! How about you invest in a Hotel room.


3) If his place, is it odd to drive myself there so I can easily get home?

If you did go to his place, be seductive and say " i'll follow you" smile at him, "walk me to my car". That way you won't feel odd and you can leave when ever you want.


Or should I expect him to drive me home?

You know nothing about him, again i wouldn't let him know where i live.

4) Should I stay all night, or just leave after the fun is over?

Depends if you want to add a bit of romance into the fantasy, ie) you also want to be held after.

5) How do you handle to awkwardness the next morning?

Be sexy, think sexy, confident.

6) Any regrets?