If we take the theory that dogs look like their owners, it's amuzing because when we look at the owners and what dogs they chose it's so funny..
I once read that women also tend to look for their father image if their relationship was "princess" and "father".
We want that love that we were give.
It is also known that woman are 4 years more mature than a male.
I understand the post of 20 verses 16, as 16 she's still a teenager giggling and learning. Some haven't even begun to have sex yet and a 20 year old males' hormones are jumping...
I also agree with maturety. An older man is wiser, more knowledgeable it's a turn on to hear his wisdom, as we feel so young and vulnerable, it's exciting i'm with a "real man"...
And, i also agree that 20 years for future may be difficult in the long run but then we have Catherine Zeta Zones, and reversed Demi Moore.
What constitutes love and attraction... Like attracts like.
Just enjoy each and every journey age is not an issue.
Older men sexually, well i think Caroline squashes all you men out there and your thoughts of older guys and what they can and can't do.
And, mine is 48, trust me, what he brings to the table a woman could only dream and fantasise about.
As the saying goes " your as old as the woman you feel" if she is young and vibrant in the bedroom regardless of age, so he will be and forever hold their peace.....
Your 45 year old guy is probably feeling like a teenager at the moment and can't believe it...