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Originally Posted by hayley2008
I Had Been In A Long Distance Relationship For 5 Months Then All Of A Sudden He Told Me His Feelings For Me Had Gone
I Thought Everything Was Fine We Always Had Fun Etc
Now He Wont Even Talk To Me He Talks To Me Like ****
And Ive Found Out That Her Had Texted His Ex Who He Was With 4 Years A Few Times While He Was With Me
And He Promised Me At The Beginingof The Relationship He Wouldnt Lie To Me But He Has
And He Doesnt Think He Has Done Anything Wrong 'its Just A Text'
Im Really Upset As I Love Him But Im So Angry He Has Lied To Me! And It Hurts So Much He Talks To Me Like ****!  |
Well, I am in a long distance relationship at the moment and it can be very hard. You have to trust the person with everything for it to work. The fact that his feelings for you are "gone" could mean that he has been talking to his ex while you have been away, but it might not. It could be the fact that long distance relationships can be very hard and not everyone can be in one due to that.
The fact that he won't talk to you and when he does talk to you he makes you feel worthless is a HUGE red flag that you need to just call it quits with this guy. Also the fact that he has lied to you is a HUGE indicator too. A sucessful relationship is built on the foundation of trust of both parties, so if he is lying and you aren't that isn't a very good foundation and things will fall apart eventually if you catch my drift.
I would say that you need to leave him, I know that it is easier said than done, but if you stay he will continue to lie and not treat you the way that you deserve to be treated. You deserve better than that, I know you do. At the end of the day though, its your decision whether you stay or not.
Hope this helps and best of luck!!