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Originally Posted by just4me
Chandler, you are right he will find another...he always has. He has been doing this for so long its natural to him. I know of atleast 7 or 8 women he's had affairs with in the past 10 years..I found all this out after I met him and stayed...duh me.
I am going to change my cell number. I have blocked him from my msn account. The only place I can't block him is my work e-mail but if he trys to contact me there I will tell my IT tech and have him blocked there as well.
I want the memories to go away, I want him outta my heart and outta my life for good. I still catch myself thinking wonder if he's gonna contact me, I know thats normal but I have to stop that too.
I can't wait for that day when I no longer feel the way I feel over him. I so look forward to that day. I will reread your advice over and over again to help me. Thank you so much Chandler. As I said I think you are an amazingly strong and wonderful person.
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I was thinking, we do that, as women
I also did some amazing things to help me go back to who i was, not to change me, but to ensure i didn't think of him, but me...
I completely went from Blonde, (all my life) to Brunette, changed cars as mine previously lived on the street, now this one has to live in my new garage, or it would get stolen....lol.
Stress makes you lose wait, i was 12, now 10, i think in America or England that may be a 6? I'm 5/8.
But therefore, i bought a few new clothes as well. And as my hair colour is different so is my make up now, so i look at this totally different woman, but inside the woman i was before, however, now with so much energy and confidence it's not funny.
For instance, the other day, i played Pink " let your fingers do the walking " from my car, with the window down, past constructions workers.... what a laugh... they were young, i am 44 and they were gobsmacked, what that does for a woman hey.....
As i said, you can and will do this...
Best of wishes, sure i'll catch you on other threads....
C