I have ALWAYS wanted to do this with my fiance! It would just be fun! In college I actually went through this two year stage after a really long relationship and loosing my virginity where I had... a lot of one night stands (we'll just leave it at that). They're fun.
1) How to you signal to a man that this is all you are interested in?
While you converse with the guy, just be to the point and not overly informational. Keep it a mystery. If you ask what he does for a living don't give a follow up question. Extreme flirtation is an obvious must. And touching. Be physical with him immediately by softly grabbing his arm or his thigh.
2) Is it safer to do it at his place or yours?
This is kind of up to you. Like the previous reply said going to his place gives you the ability to leave whenever you want. However, being at your own place gives you the ability to plan the evening and be comfortable in your surroundings.
3) If his place, is it odd to drive myself there so I can easily get home? Or should I expect him to drive me home?
Drive yourself. Follow him. And give him a kiss wanting more when you two separate after leaving the bar.
4) Should I stay all night, or just leave after the fun is over?
Again, this is a personal preference. The fun actually just might last all night! Awkward mornings really aren't that bad. They're funny memories of a good time you had with someone you're likely to never see again, so whats the big deal.
5) How do you handle to awkwardness the next morning?
If there is awkwardness, just laugh it off. I've had to ask names before and its just kind of funny. If you think its awkward, he's just as uncomfortable. But you can be, again, in control because this is what YOU planned on!
6) Any regrets?
This is the mom coming out of me but be careful of your surroundings. It can be dangerous. I would make sure a girlfriend of yours or someone knows where you're going. Ya know, just in case!
Have fun with it! I'll keep trying to get the beau to play this game with me!
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