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Originally Posted by CarolineWH
Unfortunately I did not see your last post before I posted.
I am confused as to why your Therapist thinks you would lose who you are... Still wondering where he thinks you should go...The only thing you have learned from this man is a new part of yourself....Now you stay away...So you had a fling...Lots of people do...I had an affair with a married man when I was engaged....Looking back I am happy I did...Took me a while to get over it but I learned sexually what a hot woman that I was.....And with God as my witness from that hot sexual love with him that was everything but sexual intercourse, I came out of it knowing that I was some kind of woman.....Just as you know this in your heart...
From this hot romance you have learned a new hot and sexual part of yourself....He awakened you as a woman...Now you know who you really are inside...You already said that the best part about him was the sex...Now you know it.......
Honey, you have been aroused....You worry that you will never feel this again.....You will....He has given you this gift but don't cry about it...Smile...You have learned something that many women will never be privileged to learn...They talk like they know it but they don't...You do...He has given you this gift now enjoy it without him...You will now walk with the confidence of a woman that knows she is hot...
Now stop crying over him...He really is not worth it....Make your list and write down what a jerk he is but at the end of it smile....He helped let the hot tiger in you come out of the cage....Now have some fun out of life......TC, C
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My therapist said he meant by that comment that if I don't get away from him, I may lost myself. That eventually he will have so much more control over him I will never be able to walk away if I don't do it now. He said I have an addiction to what this person has portrayed to me as his kind of love and I have to kick that addiction, just like a drug.
Yes maam he has given me a gift. As I said before I met him I didnt care much for sex at all and he woke me up to so many different things. It was amazing and I will always hold that dearly in my heart. And I look forward to sharing that with the next special person in my life...no matter how long it takes me to find that person.
My therapist told me to grieve when I need too, but look at the list and remember those are the reasons that I cannot contact him or take him back...ever. He called him a predator, and he's right thats what he is.
So now i'll use the only good thing he gave me out of this relationship and
move forward to something much more wonderful and exciting...
One day at a time.....
