For me, the worst thing would be if my man fell in love with someone else.
That's just something you can't do anything about, you're completely helpless, and even if he did stay with me in that case, I'd know it would be just for the sex, and who on earth would want that?

When I think of things like that, this postasecret postcard that I read once always comes to my mind..
it read

What hurts more than losing you... is knowing you're not fighting to keep me.