[quote=sugadoll;32992]My b/f and I got into an argument and he told me that I am being very pushy and it's scaring him. He told me that he wants us to date and see where the relationship goes and that he's not ready for marriage right now.

Yes, it means that he has feelings for you, as he didn't say seeya later that's it.

But what ever the in-security is, "fear" perhaps of losing him from the sounds of it, or anyone, thing, is causing a lot of stress on him and he has tried as you have said, to make you not feel that in-security.

Go with the "flow" of the relationship, enjoy it, feel it and don't look ahead of what is ahead. If we knew what outcomes were, it wouldn't be a journey.

So if he's happy to be in a realtionship with you but just wants it to go down the "happy" path of a relationship, no going back, no going forward just "NOW".... And, you have a great relationship, go with "NOW" and enjoy... Let go of that fear and stay in the now.

You both will be happy.

Stay in that blissful state of " oh i love him, i want to marry him, he's it, creates a lot of emotions, jealousy, questions, " do you love me " all sorts and that can scare a man of. So then, you may run out of chances.....

Just be happy if you love him, that he's there and "chill" a bit instead of trying to reach the future with him.

Best of luck...