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Originally Posted by seeking32
Let's stay focused!!!! You are experiencing wavering decisions, thoughts, and emotions because he is not yours. You must understand what you have placed yourself up against. The principalities of it all! He is cheating on his wife (his life partner, the one he vowed to honor,cherish,love, and protect). With saying that, if he does not possess those characteristics for his better half, then why would he display them for you? You first need to check your self esteem because your standards are fairly low. Please don't mistake my response as judging you, I place that at the LORD's feet. However, it was not designed for you to have another woman's husband. Therefore, nothing but strife will result in it. I was written as a promise. Please reach inside yourself and ask for forgiveness and move forward. You deserve more, so act like it! Just consider this, what you reap is what you sow. Who will your future husband share himself with? Food for thought.
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I don't think she is asking for forgiveness, she is asking for help. Nobody has a right to judge the other person unless they walk in their shoes...Her standards are not low....She is a woman and being a woman she fell for a man that she did not know was married...Again, this Forum is not to preach your gospel, but to ask for help and grow. This woman is a good woman with high standards...She made one big mistake...She fell in love....Maybe someday you too will find the bliss of this wonderful place in your heart....Then you, too, will be able to find the compassion in your heart to understand the inner workings of a woman in love...