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Originally Posted by seeking32
Let's stay focused!!!! You are experiencing wavering decisions, thoughts, and emotions because he is not yours. You must understand what you have placed yourself up against. The principalities of it all! He is cheating on his wife (his life partner, the one he vowed to honor,cherish,love, and protect). With saying that, if he does not possess those characteristics for his better half, then why would he display them for you? You first need to check your self esteem because your standards are fairly low. Please don't mistake my response as judging you, I place that at the LORD's feet. However, it was not designed for you to have another woman's husband. Therefore, nothing but strife will result in it. I was written as a promise. Please reach inside yourself and ask for forgiveness and move forward. You deserve more, so act like it! Just consider this, what you reap is what you sow. Who will your future husband share himself with? Food for thought.
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Seeking 32. I just replied to your thread on your husband" cheating on you" and you had only been married for 1 year.
I held compassion and answered my thoughts as your first words if i remember correctly was " please help"...
It is understandable therefore having read this post of your reply which you perhaps did not go to page one and read ever post reply to, rather her thread and replied, you hold as well, hurt amongst other emotions.
It certainly appears to be a somewhat biast reply to this thread and person.
Like you, she is trying to "forgive" and can't "forget".
Like you, she is trying to "jump over the hurdle and be happy"
And, like you, she has compassion and the love of the man she was with, you are with.
SHE is indeed a brave woman. She also wrote this thread for help and as such we have replied to her. She is working through this and is moving on.
Your husband cheated on you 1 year after the marriage. If you read this total thread and post, it is apparent that he, has cheated at least 10 times, surely the wife must be aware also of at least "1"...
I would think therefore, that the person in this story who is the "nasty one" is him. And, she simply got caught up in the love of him, establishing along the way, and coming to realisation of what he is.
Perhaps, search deeper as it would be hard for you to reply to this thread objectively and offer "help" and advice.
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Keep up the good work JUST4ME, remember your strength.....