Hi Just4me, well to be honest, i think it is important to talk things through more, as that way you get rid of each and every negative, turning them into positives until there are no more to talk about because your over it. (Or is that the other way around?
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But, telling her is i don't know, acting in "revenge", he hurt me i am **** well going to make sure that other's know! And, what if she doesn't listen, you wouldn't know, he loves me...... you were just...
Then you'll feel okay, that was no point.
He could have told her that she is like a white rose bug that he wished he had picked before... ( I like that one, i might use that for my new man, it just came out
) And, she may be at the beginning stages, like you were, not where you are now, not ready to hear....
So, (opinion), unless she seeks you and asks you, then just keep going down your path of forgetting him.
Don't be too hard on that last post either, she has a lot of hurt as well to get over, if you read her Thread, it is evident that she is perhaps angry and blaming the woman in her instance and let go with a bit of that anger on you.
Not saying it was right, as it certainly wasn't and hopefully she will see that herself.
Changed your mobile yet? Well just reminding you.....