hey, i am very sad and need help to see things from a different perspective about what is goin with this guy who i dont even know if is my b/f or what i should i do about this. i met a guy online six months ago and it went great since the begining. i have met his family, friends, take vacations together etc....

b/c he is in the service he moved away three months ago and wont be back for a long time. before he left he said was not willing to do long distance due to bad experiences but we kept talking after he left. i have visited him and my feelings for him are growing.

he is very loving and caring when we are together but when we are away he never says i miss you or i was thinking about you. he always says "me too" after i say it. the other day i told him i woul like him to say those kind of things sometimes and he did not understand what i was talking about. it seemes to me he is protective of expressing his feelings. he said he is worried we are setting ourselves for something unrealisitc and does not want us to carry ourselves between each other because our lifes are going in different directions. i am very sad becasue i dont understand if he cares about me or not, if he is scared because his previous experiences or he is just playing games and i should get out of the picture. i want to tell him that for me distance is not a problem because for me he is very special and i feel good with him. i know some guys get scared with all those things....what should i do?