After I posted the above I got to thinking about it a thought it sounded a little harsh.

In no way were my previous words directed at anyone. I wasn't meaning to downplay or diminish any hurt that someone might be feeling or even suggesting that they had no right to be upset/hurt. I was just simply stating that I have learned that all of us can make bad decisions in our lives and can fall into situations that normally we wouldn't take part in. I have become less judgmental than I used to be.