I remember as a child, when i was given advice, i'd buck and rebel, not only think, you are wrong but state it.

When asking for advice sometimes it may not be totally what you want to hear or a reader on a forum may read a bit more into what you may be feeling, she may even be right but told, you are wrong!. As they rebel and do not want to hear.

But to judge, whether sexual or other avenues every single person on this earth has made a or many mistakes, it's how we grow and learn.

It is what makes us stronger and better at the next venture of simular capacity.

Opinions, beliefs, they also have their own place for existance.

A kind soul will see past any wrong doing or bad decision as a move in the right direction when realised no matter what that doing or decision was, as they understand the learning and growth of a human being.