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Originally Posted by Fallen1
In my situation he turned on me to save his own hide. When his wife found out he told her that I wouldn't leave him alone, that I kept calling him etc. etc. It was quite the opposite, all through the relationship I would always bring up not seeing each other any more because of the quilt I felt of him having a family. 
So it was easy for me to let go of the relationship because the hurt of loosing him (or at least what I thought I had) quickly turned to anger because of his betrayal. |
Oh i don't blame you i'd be mad too...the one I was with would do the same thing. Thats the kind of person he is..I know he would. Actually I think many years ago when he was having one of his many flings, he did that to a girl. She then inturn sent his wife pictures of them together and conversations they had had on msn and emails. The wife still stayed and i'm sure he blamed it all on the other chickie.
Id be mad too. When I start missing him terribly I am thinking of the things he said to me when I found out he had cheated on me as well and that it was my fault he did it, cause I was fighting with him, cause he knew I had someone else too(which I did not) and the classic because he was lonely with me being 8 hours away. So he even tried to blame his cheating on me. PFFFFFFFFFTTTTTTTTT
. Idiot!! LOL