I agree with Just4me. You say that some people are telling you to not to be so available to him... But if you do this, then you justify why he should not commit to you and you won't build his trust. It's more of the contents that you put in your reply than not replying... Ie) no i'm not angry, i love you wouldn't be a good reply but, yeh, sorry for the delay, i was thinking of you if that counts, how are you.. is a careing reply but not so "i'm there" but still "there"...

I give you created for "trusting again" and i'm in the middle of divorce to, but you have to no two people are alike. And, you wouldn't want to miss that boat, if it was the right one and end up in a canoe instead!

Don't ignore him, take it gently and easy and build on that trust, you have time on your side, you don't need to rush things either and see where it leads to.

I think Little gave you some excellent advice of why he thinks the way he does. Also, being away, a man is just as insecure sometimes, well she'll find someone else, i'll just put my tail between my legs and call defeat but in the back of their mind, they are hoping that they are wrong...

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