03-26-2008, 07:33 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Posts: 1,005
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Thank You Kay...
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Quote:
Originally Posted by kaylar
The post I respond to was made two months ago, but as the
topic is being discussed in another thread, the sentiments
here are vital.
Many women 'lose' themselves in marriage. They might
have been Miss Annabell Lee, but then, they become
Ed's wife. No name...
"This is my wife."
Then they become Katie's mother.
"I'm Katie's mother," she says, introducing herself.
"I saw Ed's wife at the gas station,"
"Katie's mother is helping with the cake sale."
When today is just like yesterday only it's tomorrow
that non-personhood gets mixed into the price of
tomatos, the dishwasher that isn't working, the
dog who puked on the carpet.
When 'something' happens, which disrupts that prosaic
image; and you suddenly have to 'find' yourself...
not Ed's wife, not Katie's mother...but Annabelle Lee...
who is she?
That voyage to 'me' is vital.
It is vital whether you stay or go.
For losing you is the worst loss, regaining yourself
is the victory.
And when you are the complete matched set of you,
then that you makes the decision.
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Never has a post meant as much to me as the one you just put on the Forum.....I am now my own person...I never knew that I would be the woman I am...I don't even know where she came from but she is here...And may I say, she is here to stay..
The other day I was talking with my husband...I live in fear that one of our three children would find out that I am their sexual Mother...God forbid they would stroke out...How furious they would be I just don't know...To think that their Mother is talking about the sexual things that their Father and I do and talking the way that she does, what is she a pig...And not to just anyone, to the world......I cringe sometimes thinking this. But I have changed since I started my site not quite two years ago.
I told my husband I love my children but if one of them found out about my writings and how I love to help both women and men and they said either you stop that or we will never talk to you again, I would calmly say good bye......I am who I am and I will be until the day I die.....I am proud of being me and it took too darn long getting to this place in my life....Adios....my love.....I am a woman and not a child...I will not stop....and I wouldn't.
Kay, three years ago I lived in fear of talking about the sexuality of a woman...My age and everything against me and now I am the most humble and proud woman in the world...Thanks my friend....xox
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